Situation: (King of Summer) The message is as literal as the words on this card. You’re entering into a new relationship. This is extremely likely to be a love interest. It could also be a relationship with yourself- and learning to love yourself. You’re entering into this quickly- it’s almost being thrust upon you. You aren’t ready for it. But that’s the thing, we learn things the hard way. We never do the work until our hands are forced. My guides are expressing a feeling of panic- someone has either just unexpectedly entered your life when you weren’t ready to move on or someone is leaving and it’s forcing you to deal with yourself. This new relationship is what you have needed the whole time. If it’s someone new, someone different than you expected, it probably feels like your heart is breaking while it’s completely accepting someone else. It’s scary because it doesn’t feel wrong, and you’ve felt so right until now. If someone is leaving, it probably feels like you’re completely alone or that you’ll never be the same again- well, you won’t be the same, and that’s exactly what needs to happen. You need to grow and change and love yourself and learn how to accept love instead of holding it safely at arm’s length.
The thing that gets in your way: (Awakening) You have never done anything differently than how you’ve always done it. In fact, have you done anything at all? You’ve probably just been waiting for everything to unfold on its own and hope that you’ll end up happy and fulfilled. It doesn’t work that way. You need to look at the situation differently. Turn it around, flip it inside out, turn it upside down, rip your heart out instead of protect it, or allow yourself to experience joy because you deserve it instead of holding yourself back because whatever is causing you joy wasn’t the thing you initially wanted to bring you joy. Stop road blocking yourself.
The thing that you need to remember: (Seven of Autumn) This is going to move so fast and you’re going to have a hard time processing it all. Be curious. Ask yourself why? How? What do I do? You’ll be angry that you don’t have the answers, but you need to tell yourself that it’s ok to not know. It’s ok to not be sure. You don’t have to have it all figured out. The only thing you have to do is patiently wait for yourself to catch up- but enjoy what is happening- don’t fight it. Just experience it.
How do you make the choices to move through this situation? (The Dreamer) Dream it. What is it you hope to get from this? Whatever you want is what you can have. Let go of the methods to get there- that’s the problem. We worry about all the details to get to the end goal. Maybe we have all the details wrong. Stop planning it all, and just dream. Dream it, realize it can be yours, and allow it to come to you.
The outcome: (Prince of Spring) Playfulness, fun, and joy are coming to you. Right now it feels like the bandage has been ripped off and you’re bleeding uncontrollably. Everything feels out of control. Stop messing with the wound and it will heal on its own. Figuratively, cut yourself open. Give it air. Let it breathe. If you let go of the details and focus on the dream you will be fulfilled.